Find Someone Who

Find Someone Who is a classic mingle icebreaker where a prompt sheet gives everyone a reason to approach new people, ask quick questions, and discover shared interests.

People mingling with prompt sheets in a Find Someone Who icebreaker

What Is Find Someone Who?

Find Someone Who is a classic movement-based icebreaker. Each participant receives a sheet of prompts and walks around looking for people who match each line.

The game is simple: find someone who has a dog, likes spicy food, has lived in another city, can recommend a good show, or has a strange hobby. Once you find the right person, write down their name and ask a quick follow-up.

The task gives people a reason to start talking, which makes it much easier than open networking or a formal round of self-introductions.

Find Someone Who Group Size, Timing, and Best Settings

Best Group Size

10-40 people is ideal. Smaller groups finish quickly; larger groups can still play if you set a clear time limit and use enough prompts.

For 50+ people, split the room into smaller zones or teams so the activity stays lively instead of chaotic.

How Long It Takes

5-8 minutes for a tiny warm-up, 10-15 minutes for a standard version, and 15-20 minutes for a larger event.

Best Settings

  • Company onboarding
  • Training openings
  • Workshops
  • Classrooms
  • Community events
  • Meeting openings
  • First-time small groups
  • Networking sessions
  • Camps and volunteer groups

Preparation

Prepare a prompt sheet, project the list on a screen, or turn the prompts into a bingo-style card.

Each participant should write down the name of the person who matches each prompt.

How to Play Find Someone Who Step by Step

1

Prepare a Prompt Sheet

Create 10-20 prompts.The best prompts are light, easy to answer, and able to start a second question.
A simple sheet can have two columns:“Find someone who...” and“Name.”
2

Explain the Goal

The host can say:“Your job is to find people who match these descriptions. When you find a match, ask one small follow-up question and write their name.”
Make it clear that the goal is not to finish fastest.The goal is to have a few real conversations.
3

Start the Mingling Round

Participants walk around and ask short questions.The prompt itself becomes the opening line, so nobody has to invent one from scratch.
4

Add the Follow-Up Rule

This is the part that makes the game better.Do not stop at“Do you have a dog?” Ask“What is their name?” or“What kind of dog?”
5

Share a Few Discoveries

At the end, ask what surprised people, which prompt worked best, or who found an unexpected common interest.
This final share matters because it turns scattered one-on-one conversations into a shared group moment.
  • “Who was the most surprising person you found?”
  • “What common interest did you discover?”
  • “Which prompt created the best conversation?”
  • “Did anyone find a pineapple-on-pizza supporter?”

Find Someone Who Prompt Ideas

Easy Prompts

  • Has a dog
  • Likes gardening
  • Enjoys cooking
  • Prefers tea over coffee
  • Has traveled this year
  • Likes pineapple on pizza
  • Can speak more than one language
  • Has lived in another city

More Memorable Prompts

  • Has an oddly specific hobby
  • Can recommend a great TV show
  • Has killed a houseplant before
  • Has a pet with a ridiculous name
  • Has a strong opinion about pizza toppings
  • Knows a useless but funny fact
  • Has a favorite childhood snack

Work-Friendly Prompts

  • Has used a tool others should know about
  • Has worked in another industry
  • Prefers deep work over meetings
  • Has a favorite productivity shortcut
  • Has worked here for more than three years
  • Has a good meeting habit

Training-Friendly Prompts

  • Has taught a group before
  • Has handled a difficult audience
  • Has a favorite facilitation technique
  • Has used an icebreaker that actually worked
  • Has learned something surprising from a trainee

Ways to Adapt Find Someone Who

Onboarding Version

Use prompts about first-week experiences, departments, tools, work styles, and friendly personal facts.

Bingo Version

Turn the prompt sheet into a bingo grid so people can aim for a row or full card.

Timed Challenge

Set a 5-minute timer and see who can find the most unique people. This works best when the room already has some energy.

Common Ground Challenge

Instead of finding people who match fixed prompts, ask participants to find three people who share a hobby, two people who like the same food, or one person with a similar routine.

Story Version

After finding a match, participants must ask for a tiny story: “Why do you like gardening?” or “What is your dog’s name?”

Team Version

Put people in small teams and let each team complete one shared sheet. This works well for quieter groups or people who do not know each other yet.

Theme Version

Design prompts around a training topic, class subject, conference theme, company event, or community meetup.

Find Someone Who Mistakes to Avoid

Do Not Make It a Checklist Race Only

The goal is not just names on paper. Ask for one follow-up so real conversation happens.

Avoid Private Questions

Stay away from salary, relationship status, politics, religion, health, and family details.

Do Not Let One Friend Fill the Sheet

Limit repeat names so people actually meet different participants.

Do Not Make Prompts Too Rare

If prompts are too hard, people stop moving. Mix easy and distinctive prompts.

Give Introverts Room

Let people move at a comfortable pace, start with nearby partners, pair up if needed, and skip public sharing if that helps them participate.

How to Facilitate Find Someone Who Smoothly

Model One Exchange

Show the difference between a checkbox question and a real mini-conversation.

  • Too mechanical: “Do you have a dog? No? Okay, next.”
  • Better: “Do you have a dog? What is their name?”

Keep the Room Moving

Give a halfway reminder and invite people to talk to someone they have not met yet.

Make Completion Optional

Tell the group that meeting several people matters more than filling every line.

Use a Few Light Debate Prompts

Pineapple pizza, early birds vs. night owls, coffee vs. tea, or similar safe preferences can create quick laughter.

Close with Shared Discoveries

Ask two or three people what they learned. This gives the activity a satisfying ending.

How to Write Better Find Someone Who Prompts

Good Prompts Are Easy but Specific

The best prompts are easy enough that someone in the room probably matches them, but specific enough to invite a follow-up.

Add a Story Door

Instead of “has a pet,” try “has a pet with a funny name.” Instead of “likes travel,” try “has gotten lost while traveling.”

Match the Event Theme

For training, include learning or facilitation prompts. For onboarding, include company tools, first-week moments, or friendly work habits.

End by Pulling the Room Back Together

After mingling, ask two or three debrief questions so the room does not simply scatter after the timer ends.

Who Find Someone Who Works Best For

This game works especially well for new hires, students, training participants, community members, volunteer teams, project groups, first-time teams, and meeting participants who need to warm up quickly.

It is less useful for very formal high-pressure meetings, rooms with fewer than five people, spaces where people cannot move, or sessions with almost no time for interaction.

Why Find Someone Who Works

1

It Lowers the Barrier to Starting a Conversation

Many people dislike open-ended introductions. A prompt like “find someone who has a dog” gives them an easy first line.

2

It Creates Common Ground Quickly

When someone discovers “you like gardening too” or “you also have a strong pineapple pizza opinion,” the distance between strangers drops fast.

3

It Gives Socializing a Reason

Participants are not forcing small talk. They are completing a shared task, which makes the interaction feel more natural for quieter people too.

4

It Is More Memorable Than a Standard Introduction

People remember “the person with three dogs” or “the person who hates pineapple pizza” more easily than a name, title, and department.

What Find Someone Who Is Designed to Do

Break the first layer of unfamiliarity quickly.

Help people discover shared interests and small points of connection.

Get the room moving instead of sitting silently.

Help participants remember each other through small personal details.

Make later group discussion feel less cold.

Keep the Session Flowing

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Quick Info

Scenario

Onboarding, New Teams, Training Openers, Classroom, Community Events, Event Social Mixers, Camps / Volunteers

Audience

Adults, Teens, Strangers, Introverts

Place

Indoor

Style

Low Pressure

Time

5-20 Mins

Group Size

10 - 50 People

Prep

Prompt sheet or bingo card, Pens, Optional timer

Tips for Success!

  • Prompts should be easy to answer but interesting enough for a follow-up.
  • Ask participants to add one small question after each match.
  • Limit repeat signatures so people meet more than one familiar person.
  • End with a quick share so discoveries become visible to the whole room.

Did You Know?

The real trick is not filling the whole sheet; it is turning each prompt into an easy opening line and one natural follow-up question.